How to Have a Swap Meet

This post could very well be 15 pages long. I've got photos, I've got tips, I've got some guidelines. Don't hate me because I'm wordy?

Here are the basics to having a swap. I'll go into entirely too much depth on each one as you scroll down. There will be no need for comments because everything that could possibly be said about this swap will be said by me. But I still want comments because I heart them.
  1. Decide what kind of stuff you want to swap.
  2. Figure out how many people you want to invite.
  3. Choose the best swap method and location based on the peeps.
  4. Make sure you have food.


Of course, I opted for a housewares swap. There are all sorts of swaps: women's clothing, kid's clothing, books, holiday, kitchen stuff, jewelry/accessory/purses and stuff, many other things that if I were really funny I could think of, I bet you are thinking of a great swap idea right now.

Top Row: Richella, Emily, Nester, The Scooper, Terri, Jen, Bonita
Bottom Row: Leigh Ann, Lily, Kimba

I opened the swap up to anyone who reads this blog. Because I am a crazy woman. Luckily, no killers came. I wrote this post months ago, and from there, me and my unorganized self tried to keep track of anyone who commented and told me that they would be want to come to the swap.

Terri and Tracey

Can I just tell you that I was a nervous wreck that I would accidentally, unintentionally, totally innocently somehow leave some people out that wanted to come. As the 100+ comments started rolling in I found myself completely unprepared for organizing whatever communication I needed. I've already come across two people who somehow didn't get an invite--both people who I actually know in real life! Oh the humanity! They somehow didn't make it to the email list. If you waited for an invite and didn't get it, please forgive me and know that it was purely human error and nothing more. The last thing I want to do is have anyone feel left out.

Tip #1: make sure an organized person is in charge of your swap.


A month or so after the first call in the comment section went out for swappers, I sent out an email to all the people who showed interest in the swap, with a date and time and told anyone who could make it to reply and they would get an invite. I figured that would be a good way to weed out any lazy killers. I'm pretty sure it worked. There were some people who left a comment saying they wanted to come and left no way for me to contact them. Unfortunately, those dear people did not get an email from me. Some people didn't reply for a while, those people got put on a waiting list. I wasn't able to include them this time. If only my house were bigger.


From those replies, I sent out an evite that included a link to a back dated blog post all about the upcoming swap meet. This hidden post was a place for me to explain more in depth what the swap was, how I wasn't organized-so-please-don't-expect-it-to-run-smoothly and also provided a place for swappers to see who else would be there and ask questions in the comments. I also had to ask people to not bring friends this time seeing as it was my first swap and I had a full house. That was a hard thing to ask.

Renee and Emily

I invited about 40 people and about 25 people were able to make it. It was a full house. Ideally, I think a swap would work best with about 15 people but, I opted for fun, not organization. Having a big group also makes you feel like you don't get to really talk to each person. That's a part I didn't like either. I wish I could have had a long conversation with everyone there.

Jen

As people came, we had them lay all of their discards out on my big table. It filled up, so my mom cleared out all the stuff out of my little front sitting room and also let people set out stuff in there. Overflow. We had rugs and bolts of fabric, holiday decor, lamps, chandeliers, trays, and other stuff you would want.


Then, we drew numbers 1-25. Second, I forced my sweet friend, Jen to make announcements while I hid behind my mom. We went in groups of five. So Jen would just say "Ok, the first 5 people can go pick out their item".

Traci swap meet inspiration

The first lucky five women got to make their way to the table {or front room or look over both} and make one selection. If something seemed like it was part of a pair, they could take both things. Some of us watched, some talked in the living room. Some of us purged ourselves with that dip that Richella brought while smelling the flowers that Bonita cut from her own garden.

My neighbor Gwen, Renee, Richella

After what seemed like 2 minutes, the first five people were done and Jen was announcing that numbers 6-10 could pick. It went a lot faster than I thought it would. I guess everyone had their eye {eyes if you have two} on a few things that they wanted.


Then 11-15 went.

And 16-20 and so on. Everyone seemed to get at least one thing they were happy about. I didn't find any cast offs under the bathroom cabinet or anything. And there was no hair pulling. Everyone was quite civil.


Lysa even found some great things from the swap table that she thought would look good in my house. I'll tell you about those in another post.


The fact that we had so many swappers dictated the kind of swap we could have. With fewer participants, you could have an auction style swap like a nickel auction {thanks sara and tiffani!}, or you could take the time to give each item a tag based on worth and hand out tickets based on what each person brought. I like to have as few rules as possible.

Laura

But the food rule. There MUST be food. I just asked anyone driving less than an hour to bring a delicious finger food.

Mom and Delores

And the mom rule. It's nice to have your mom there wiping down your microwave before people walk in and answering the door and warning you that your three boys just came in the back door while holding what looked like real guns.

Sandy and Sheri

My mother in law and sister in law came too. Y'all, I have the craziest story to tell you next week about my MIL and this swap. But this post is getting long now.


Lily and I even made a major trade. We had emailed before hand about some bar stools she didn't want anymore. I bartered with tassels. It was her idea.

Lysa, Holly, Nester

I hope a fun time was had by all. I know I LOVED every second of the swap. I even scored that basket of eggs that Tracy {I did not get a photo of YOU???} brought! At the end we let people grab anything they wanted from the table that was left over. And the stuff that no one wanted {many pieces of my own junk was left over} got packed up and sent to the goodwill.

June whom I stalk, and Meme {my dear friend in real life who stalks June with me} and Angela {my yard sale partner} and Eileen, we missed you!

Not to mention, Kimba got to spend the night with me that night. We laughed, we ate, we spoke blogese. It was wonderful.

Stacie and moi

I'd love to do it again. Next time I would love to open it up to anyone and have it a church or someplace large. I would also have people bring at least 5 items so everyone gets to leave with more stuff. A swap is such a great way to recycle stuff you no longer want. As long as you chose a good swap method, there's really no limit to how many people you can involve. So yes, from MOPS to bunco, a swap meet can be successful!


Anyone want to plan a big swap meet? I'll be there!

89 comments:

Christi said...

Sounds like a fantastic time! Wish I could've been there!

labride said...

Awesome! That is such a great idea. Oh I found a door in someone's yard on our street, that was an awesome idea!

emily freeman said...

I need a new book to read. I think I'll print out this post and read a little bit every night before I go to bed. tee, hee. I'm hilarious. Love you! Great tips, great post. And I love that the boys coming in the back door with guns is SO not a joke.

Trish @TheOldPostRoad said...

Thank you for the rules and regulations!

The Blushing Hostess said...

What a great idea, though, one might be a tiny bit leary of what may show up with some of the guests! :)

jules said...

Sounds like so much fun. I have never heard of this before. I guess people don't SWAP here in Wisconsin.

duchess said...

So sad I couldn't come. Want to make it an annual event?

Chris Kauffman said...

I love this idea so much , I think I am going to try this in my neighbourhood , now that I know how it works , thanks for explaining it so well .
It all makes sense to me.
Chris
Just beachy

Amy {The Red Chair Blog} said...

Looks like fun!

Lynne in NC said...

Oh pooh! I must not have been paying attention! DOH! Seeing The Scooper and Lily in the photo, NOW I know what you were talking about for a swap meet.

Looks like you gals had a blast. Thanks for posting. I'm looking forward to seeing more details.

Those bar stools are perfect for your kitchen, too.
Peace.

Lindsay said...

I'm so glad you all had a good time! :)

We do a MOPS Swap each year at the end of the year, and it's a blast! :)

Jen - Balancing Beauty and Bedlam said...

Oh yes, fun was to be had by all....especially making your hubby take a picture of us smooshed in our craft room. :) Female bonding at its finest.
And we won't say whose stuff was left behind that had to go to Good Will...but if you look closely at my GW picture, maybe we can see. :) ha

Anonymous said...

This sounds like more fun than Disneyland! I wish I lived closer to you so I could have come. Looks like everyone had a great time and got some neat new treasures!

Anonymous said...

Yet another terrific idea I intend to use - thank you! We just moved, have loads of stuff I'm ready to let go of - I wonder if our new Church family would be game....hmmmm.

Laryssa @ Heaven In The Home said...

Looks like you all had a great time! Wish I could have been there my friend. :-)

Virginia said...

wow! that looks like so much fun! i'll have to be thinking of what i could do!

Scooper said...

Girl, I had the best time. Lily and I could have stayed all night...but then you might have worried that we were killers. I'm still basking in the joy of getting to meet you and Emily! Oh, and your house rocks. I want to tell everyone that it's even lovelier in person. Thanks for opening it up to us.

Britt said...

This looks like SO much fun! I want to run out and start planning a swap meet NOW!

Denise said...

This looks like a fabulous idea. Wish I could have been there, but I don't know where there is! so I'll just keep reading your wonderful posts and enjoy all the great pics:-)

Mom in High Heels said...

Okay, so I'll be back in the States in April or May of next year. You need to schedule one for then. At your house, because I need to see it! ;)

Tracy Watier said...

How fun!! I would happily participate if I wasn't a million-something miles away. With the rules and regs fully outlined though, maybe one day I'll organize my own. Hmmm. Thanks!

Welcome to M and M World! said...

Nester, I have to give you a hard time (just a little)...I was one of those left off the invite list...yes, I was at the beach but would have come back a day early (well maybe not from the beach, lol). So glad it was a success for all of you!!! Your home is awesome!

Tiffany said...

I have been thinking for a while that I would like to organize a clothing swap with the ladies from my church. You totally gave me the courage to send out a message to see if anyone bites. Fun!

Bonita said...

Thanks so much for writing this book...um post and including links to everyone. I met so many wonderful people and I had no idea how to stay in touch with them.

You know all those other types of swaps you mentioned in your post? Can we have one of each of those at your house too?

Thanks so much for a wonderful time. Even though this non-domestic person was a little overwhelmed by all the stuff to choose from, I really enjoyed it.

Sunny said...

Really neat idea! This is like a lazy garage-seller type thing only you swap your wares and I totally heart it!

Janell @ House of Fifty said...

THANK YOU for the detailed rundown!
Janell

The Writer Chic said...

Thank you for posting the details -- I think my girlfriends and I could totally pull this off!

Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions said...

Sounds like it went really well! I think it's a great idea. Love the stools you got and the tassel you are holding in that picture.

TidyMom said...

What a fun idea and looks like everyone had so much fun!!

~TidyMom

Melissa Miller said...

What a fun filled day! You all look great! :)

Cairen said...

That sounds like so much fun! I am glad it went well and the stools you got are SO CUTE!

Rachel said...

How fun! You should have a link party with everyone showing where they put their new swap items. :) Next time I'm so going to clear my schedule in advance!

queenbee said...

Hey Nester,

My mom and I have actually been thinking about hosting a swap meet, more than likely at her house because she has soooo much room. Thanks for sharing your tips and I love the less rules as possible idea. By the way please share with me where you purchased that white top you have on, I loveee it.

Unknown said...

I read the whole post and it wasn't too long :) Thanks for sharing. I love love the Nesting Place words on your wall.

Heidi said...

woo hoo, what fun! I like as little rules as possible for these type things too - keeps it more light and fun.

Terri said...

It was a BLAST! Thank you, thank you, thank you for including me!! You are right, it was a lot of ladies... I saw people in these photos I never got to meet. But of those with whom I did speak, I felt a connection. I think we all felt like we left with stuff that was far better than we brought. It was wonderful!! You are wonderful! Like the Scooper, I am still basking in the joy... Blessings!!!

Anonymous said...

SUCH FUN!

Me and my friends are in the beginning stages of planning a swap! And I would LOVE to have ya there, Nester!!

Thanks for posting this. Loved all the pics and awesome tips! =-)

Tricia said...

You are too cute! Looks like you all had a blast and you definitely walked away with the some treasures.

Lisalulu said...

great great great idea, the best so far. Thanks for a wonderful blog, and great ideas!

Kasey said...

Great post. Great advice. I'm glad your swap was successful for you. I would like to host a swap like this in the near future.

Aubrey said...

Sheesh, all I could think of was that dang cute shirt you had on.

Were your boys really toting real guns? I have to know what I'm in for when my three boys are bigger (and I guess BORN, since one isn't yet). Maybe I don't want to know--the prospect is too frightening.

Tammy said...

Sounds like you had a great time with all the NC women. Wish I had been there. Maybe next time as I am only 1 hour from Greensboro and 2 from Charlotte. How cool.
Just wanted to let you all know of a cool event in October. The first saturday is Cameron Day - very cool big thrift/flea/antique/crafts day in a historic town. Over about 3-400 vendors and lots of food for enjoyment. Here is a link to it:
http://www.antiquesofcameron.com/events.htm
I will have a booth there with my sister and would love to meet fellow bloggers...
come on down and shop..
tammy

Amanda @ Serenity Now said...

Very cool post!! I love the ideas you listed for different kinds of swaps.

This had some really good tips on the inner workings, esp. since I didn't know anything about how a swap works.

Now be honest, did anyone show up with any duds? That would be my biggest worry...someone arriving with a truckload of old plastic McDonalds cups or something. ;)

This is my idea of fun! :)

Jane said...

What a super idea! and one that I think would be great to hold in January...the "dead" month. It would be a great place to unload (I mean swap) those "interesting" Christmas items.

Thanks for the rules!
Jane (Artfully Graced)

the undomesticated wife said...

Fun! I'd love to do this because I have a lot of stuff I could get rid of, but don't have many girlfriends who would be interested.

Home as Hobby said...

First of all, I adore your house!!! Secondly, the swap meet is a wonderful idea! I have started planning my own as well. Thirdly, you are right about the food...must have food. Thanks for the great posts!!!

Heathahlee said...

Thanks for the tutorial! Emily's comment made me LOL! : )

Jen said...

I love that idea! My SIL lives in your area, I could make it a girls' weekend. :)

Trendy Bindi's Boutique LLC said...

Thanks so much for sharing this lovely time with all of us. Thanks too for posting the how-to on swapping. You really have a lovely blog!
Kerry

Gussy Sews said...

Umm, Nester. Sigh.

I read on your post "don't hate me because I'm wordy."

NEVER.

Gussy loves all that have a lot to say :)

Magic Brush said...

Oh man... why can't we live closer??? I just know we'd be fast friends!!! And I want dibs on your stuff!!!!

I have specific questions:
Did you ask everyone to bring a certain number of items?
Did do tell them to bring things people may want? Or did they just know to leave the hideous stuff at home?

Fun! Fun!

Gretchen said...

I'm not sure if I am drooling over the goods or the food more. Both made me salivate! =)

Thanks for the great tips! I think we will try this...

Kristi~The Slipcover Girl said...

Looks like you had so much fun! Bumming I missed it...Hopefully next time!

Suzanna said...

This was so perfect! I'm going to do a swap but I didn't know how to do it. Thanks for sharing it looked like a lot of fun! Suzanna

NicNacManiac said...

Awesome idea...everyone looked so pleased with their new treasures and had a great time!! Great job!!

The Nester said...

@Magic Brush--good questions.

There is a link in this post where I said "I wrote a back dated post" click on it and you can read exactly what I told people.

Richella said...

I think it's quite safe to say that fun was had by all. After having looked forward to it for a long time, I'm having trouble believing that it's past now! How about another swap in early November for Christmas decorations?

Mrs. (not) the Jet Set said...

It sounds like everyone had a blast. I wish I loved closer!

I'll have to come up with a way to do one in my area. Thanks for the idea!

Takin' time to smell the flowers! said...

So wish I could have been there! Did you have to put notes on the wonderful things in your home that were not part of the swap? Great tips, I now want to have a swap!

PinkBalloons&Macaroons said...

fun post!! so cool!! I hope you have a fabulous day!! hugs!! Britt :-)

Paige @ Little Nostalgia said...

What a fun day! I love swap meets! Too bad I wasn't following your blog in time...

June Gardens said...

Just so everyone knows, my cat was BLEEDING. Otherwise, I never would have missed a Nester event.

Bleeding, folks.

Su said...

I want to come to the next one. . that you have in a church or someplace bigger. . I am in Raleigh. Where are you? (and no, I am not a killer..lol) You have so inspired me to host one here at my house though. . I have heard of clothing swaps . and of course coupon swaps.. but this sounds like so much more fun!!

Brambleberry said...

I am totally going to have a swap meet. Totally. I love other people's junk, and hate my own. It's a perfect scenario.

Thanks for the great tips!

Misti of Studio M Designs said...

Thank you so much for posting this! I have talked about doing a swap for years, and have never done it. Our church would be a great place to host one, so I may be putting that together REALLY soon! It looks like you girls had a blast. Bet your new neighbors were so excited to have The Nester move in next door!

~Misti

Sara said...

I was the one that posted about a nickel auction. Here's a link to a video about them:

http://paulandtiff.blogspot.com/2009/04/nickel-auction.html

Looks like you had a great time! I would've loved to have been there and meet all of my favorite bloggers in one spot!

Jenn - Walk with Me said...

What an awesome idea! I love it! Oh, and I love your blog too :)

dmvoccola said...

What a great idea. I'd just love to have a come-take-some-of-this-stuff-off-of-my-hands party. I don't want anything in return. Really, I don't. Well maybe a little something. *wink*

Shannan Martin said...

Oh girl, this is my idea of FUN! Thanks for the tips and all the pics, too.

Brought to you by the letter K. said...

This is SUCH a neat idea! I love that you're recycling and keeping stuff out of landfills. Hopefully more people will pick up on this. Maybe you'll start a new trend. ;)

JustMeCopper said...

You are sooo pretty!

Anonymous said...

ACK! I made your blog - I'm now the coolest person I know! ;-) Seriously though - I couldn't have had more fun so thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for including me. And I couldn't have had more fun meeting Terri and Kimba and Richella and everyone else . . .

Laura

ThePrudent Homemaker said...

How totally fun!

Sounds like a fun way to host a cheap party!

Anonymous said...

You lead the way so often! I was looking forward to your explanation. Thank you.

PS. Your mom is darling : )

Dee

Pretty Organizer said...

All I can say is Halloween costume swap! I HATE buying those things. I hate making them. If we could all be princesses and spidermen I don't think I would dislike that day so much. Anyway, with Christmas around the corner, it's the last thing I want to spend money on. EVERYONE has old costumes they made or bought and kids rarely wear them twice. This year I'm hosting a costume swap or "borrow" night. Trading is so much more efficient and thrifty!

Adcock Circus said...

I had the best time - and while I snagged some cute "new to me" treats for my house - more importantly I left having made some new friends and realizing how small our world really is!

Jennifer Juniper said...

This is a great idea. I arranged a book swap at the beginning of the summer that was a raging success and I immediatly began to set my sights higher and thought of a swap meet, but wasnt' sure how to narrow down the field. Love this!

Christina said...

OH how I wish I lived in your area! That sounds like so much fun.

Tracey said...

Are all bloggers and moms of bloggers this darn cute? :) Birds of a feather I suppose.

Alissa said...

So jealous that someone swapped something for your tassels!! I love those. I'm waiting to see what you put up on Etsy. You said soon, right? LOL.

Anyway, this sounds like it was so much fun! I wish I were closer to you and had been reading the blog back when you posted the call. Alas, I can watch from VA and know that now I can host my own. Thank you *so* much for posting how the whole thing went down.

NCJill said...

Oh, POO! I'm so sad I didn't pay attention and get on the list. Could you pls add me to the next one? Pretty please?

I'm going to have a kid's clothes swap at our pool next week. Does everyone who picks out clothes have to bring something as well? That's where I'm stumped. Thanks Nester!

GoodPlans said...

I'm so glad you posted this! We had a swap at our homeschool meeting last April, and it was great, but I like the number system you used better. We're having another one in October, and I'm going to suggest this method. I'm totally jealous of all the great stuff, and I'm sure your "old junk" that went to Goodwill will show up on someone's else's blog as a find!

Carmen said...

I think it is a wonderful idea. I have attended plants swaps from GardenWeb and they have been awesome. Everybody has been so nice and generous and we all get to eat delicious food. Happy to know you all had fun.

Ruth said...

It looks like a fabulous time. I wish I was closer. I would have been there in a heart beat.

Ruth

Anonymous said...

wow.. what a cute idea and you girls sure look like you had fun!!!! i want to hear about the mil story that had to do with the swap.. i hope you posted about it.. gonna go check.

Hillary @ The Other Mama said...

Nester- SO much fun.
Several things: did you take the stuff to the "rich people's" goodwill? That's what Jen kept calling it and it cracked me up.
And- you and your mom and Emily really favor! You are all beautiful!!
Finally- I am totally doing this. thanks for the inspiration!

Sandy said...

Sure, you're coming to OREGON?

I'm coming to your next one, count me in! :)

Linda@Coastal Charm said...

This is my kind of party...great idea! I hope to have a SWAP soon and when I do, I will give you the credit. I really enjoy reading your blog...keep posting.

Blessings,
Linda

linda-coastalcharm.blogspot.com

Mama Bird said...

Oh how I love a good swap! A friend and I host a clothing swap twice a year and have one coming up in a few weeks. We love it and everyone always make out with great stuff! Not to mention a cleaner closet!

I blogged about it here!
http://flyawayfamily.com/host-a-clothing-swap/710