I used them in the bathroom in the old house but now, they are in the foyer. You don't need a window to soften a room with fabric. Six yards of fabric at $5 per yard {1502 fabrics, Thomasville, NC} is much less expensive than a 8' x 5' rug. Do you have a place that needs softening that could use some drapes--what about that opening to your dining room?
Windowless Mistreatments
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Fabric Buying Tips
We've talked about where to shop for fabric and many of you are asking how to know what fabric to buy for certain projects. An entire blog could be dedicated to this subject, there are so many things to do with fabric and so many seductive and utilitarian fabrics available. I'm sure if you started a blog like that you could write for years without running out of things to talk about.
I struggled with writing this post because part of me feels like people would like a list of rules and regulations for fabric buying. And I really don't believe in many rules and regulations when it comes to decorating. Nesting and making your home beautiful combines something creative with something personal and who needs rules for that? For every rule there is an equal and opposite exception where someone not only broke the rule, but did so with style and gusto.
Balance the no rules philosophy with the fact that some things truly don't look all that great together or work out all that well and we are stuck right in the center of decorating tension. Which isn't all that bad of a place to be. All you need to do is balance some general guidelines with trial and error and personal opinion and you can come up with a stunning result.
Amy ButlerSo if you supply the trial and error, creativity and personal opinion, I'll supply some general, random thoughts and guidelines regarding fabric. The following are not rules.
What to Take When Fabric Shopping:
1. TAKE YOUR TIME! this is highly important. There is no rush. Southern Living is not showing up at your door tomorrow and if they are, girl, you had better hurry!
2. Take your fabric file, it will assist you in coordinating existing fabrics
3. Take a friend she can giggle with you and be moral support
4. Take away swatches. Don't leave the fabric store without fabric samples to look at in the room where you want to use them. Label each swatch with masking tape {if the store doesn't do this for you} and write the store name and cost per yard.
What to look for
1. For window mistreatments, you want 54 inch wide decorator's fabric. If you are doing long drapes you don't want a heavy upholstery grade fabric that won't hang well. Pull out the fabric on the bolt out a few feet and grab it in your fist and hold it up and see how it drapes. If it's super stiff, it's not going to look all that great on your windows. On the other hand if it's extremely thin, it could look cheap if not lined. Look at premade drapes and take note of the kinds of fabrics used.
2. For recovering dining room chairs you want a thicker fabric. Stay away from silk it will get stained and worn fast. Look for a little thicker fabric and remember, solid colors will show dirt quicker than a pattern.
3. If you sew and want to line your drapes, consider using a twin sheet. For my duvet cover, I used a coordinating sheet for the back and fabric on the front. That saved me some money and time.
4. My usual limit on fabric is $7 per yard. We have so many great fabric stores in our area that I have figured out it's worth the wait for me to look around until I find something in my price range. Most of my mistreatments were $5-7 per yard, my duvet cover was $8 per yard, the bedskirt was a splurge at $30 per yard and I even temporarily lost my mind and spent $45 for 3/4 of a yard of french knotted silk. I'm sure if I would have been patient I could have found something comparable for less. But I admit, I adore the fabric. If there is a really expensive fabric that you are in love with, buy a small amount and use it on a pillow or table topper, runner or even a lampshade.
If you are looking for small yardages of luscious coordinating fabric, try out Fresh Squeezed Fabrics and search their fabric bundles. This would be great for a fabric canvas, pillow, ragamuffin garland and various other projects that take small amounts of fabric.
Remember if you are making mistreatments, keep your yardage price low. If you end up spending $30 per yard and say you will need 3 yards per panel for one window you would spend $180. You would be better off buying from Half Price Drapes or Ballard Designs. Mistreatments are best done when you find super inexpensive fabric or fabric that you already have.
Want more guidelines to decorate by? Read The Best Decorating Advice Ever at The Inspired Room. And if you missed this weekend's Bird Watching, be sure to scroll down, there are some great projects this week.
What are your fabric tips?
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7/06/2009
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Labels: fabric, window mistreatments
Where to Shop for Fabric
What started out as one post about fabric to go with the top 5 tools list has morphed into 3, maybe even 4 posts because I cannot seem to stop chatting it up about all things fabric. This is the first post in a series on fabric.
Fabric is a luxurious tool. Along with paint, it possesses power that is almost superhero like. Properly place some fabric on a bare window and you can instantly transform the feeling in a room. Mix patterns to fill and personalize a room. Use textures to add interest and depth. Keep to solid colors for a clean cozy feel without interrupting the overall feel of a room.
1. Finding Fabric in Your Town
Yes, Jo-Ann, Hancock, Hobby Lobby and other craft/sewing/hobby shops do sell a little fabric. I've purchased fabric from all three of those shops and you can find some nice things at good prices. But if you never step foot in any other kind of fabric store, you are really, really missing out.
You could start by simply googling your city and the words fabric store.
Here's what came up for Charlotte. You've got your Hancock and Calico {if you are not familiar with Calico Corners stop right now and order their catalog: completely inspiring} Midas {large chain in the Carolina's} and then Boone {no website but one of my favorite shops} Hobby Lobby, Robyn's--what? I've never heard of that!, Front Door {local and small but good remnants} and other stuff. I usually lean toward the local shops.
Right now the best place for me to find fabric at a good price is a little strip mall place called Tony's fabrics. It's big, it's bright and all the fabric is $6.99 a yard. How did I find it? I drove there even though it was a long drive from my house when we first moved here. It was worth it to scope out my new city and see what was kind of fabric cornucopia they offered. Why isn't it on the list? Here's the thing, the two best fabric stops in my city, aren't actually in my city. Make sure you google surrounding towns as well.
Besides googling or pulling your phonebook out of 1986, another way to find the best stores is to ask your friends who sew. These days there are special stores for quilters, hobby fabric stores and more decorator friendly stores. Most likely, if you are mistreating a window, you want to visit decorator fabric stores.
2. Finding Fabric Online
What? Shopping for fabric online? Isn't that harder than convincing your Mother in Law that you can actually paint brick. {No real mother in laws were hurt in this analogy, mine was totally supportive of our brick painting}. Here's how I shop for fabric online. Start in the stores. Shop around, find what you like, get a swatch and a manufacturer name {sometimes found on the edge of the fabric, or on a tag on the bolt, or ask the fabriteer (my name for people who work in the fabric store)}. Each fabric design has it's own name and if there are different colors in the same pattern, a color as well, try to get that too. Most fabriteers will amaze you with their ability to remember a fabric maker and name from even years back.
Once you have the fabric maker and name start looking online. For example. Say you want a P. Kaufmann Central Park Toile. First, just google it. There are lots of places you can find it, right? So, why not start with two online fabric stores and compare. Let's look at, Fabric.com--which I've talked about before. They tend to have great sales and seem quite customer service oriented. Here's what they have--you can click on the photo to enlarge it:

One more thing, did you notice the color difference for these fabrics? This is why it's hard to blindly shop online. Most likely they are the exact same color.


More to come in way of fabric shopping well talk about what to buy, pricing, tips and coordinating fabric.
Are there good stores in your area? Feel free to leave a shout out with your town and favorite fabric store.
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7/01/2009
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They look even better in person!
This is a article was originally posted in March of 2008. It's one of my all time favorite posts...enjoy!
I wanted to share this with you so that you can be at the ready when going into some of these wonderful fabric stores! Kimberley just emailed this to me--it's a play by play of her experience with a fabriteer as I like to call them. Read on, and enjoy...
I simply must share my conversation with the clerk at the snooty fabric store where I purchased my mistreatment supplies!
Clerk (middle-aged, attractive, though not pretty, uptight!!!!): How can I help you today?
Me: I need 4 yards of this fabric (a fabulous animal print that was only $13.95/yard, which is a miracle at this store!!!!!)
Clerk: This is a lovely fabric, what are you working on?
Me: (Here we go...) A decorator's table skirt and two window treatments.
Clerk: Are you sure 4 yards is enough fabric?
Me: Yes, I believe so. I need 3 yards for the table, and whatever is left will be used for the windows.
Clerk: You don't know how much fabric you need for your window treatments?
Me: Not exactly, but I'm sure a yard will do the trick.
Clerk: Are you working with a designer?
Me: Yes.
Clerk: Well, what kind of window treatments has she designed?
Me: Upholstery tack valances.
Clerk: Are you using one of our recommended designers?
Me: Nope.
Clerk: Who exactly is your designer?
Me: Nester.
Clerk: Who? I've never heard of Nester, and I know all the designers in town!
Me: She's not in town. She's online.
Clerk: She's an online designer? How does she conduct her consultations online?
Me: She doesn't.
Clerk: Then how do you know what you are doing?
Me: I don't, I'm just looking at her pictures online and following her step-by-step instructions.
Clerk: I've just got to see this. Do you have her website? (She boots up her laptop.)
Me: Go to thenester.com. Yep, there she is. Click on the right hand side where it says window mistreatments. There you go!
Clerk: (After spending several minutes scrolling madly!) Well, these do look nice online, but I can guarantee you they don't look all that great in person!!!
Me: I don't know about that! My kitchen and family room look pretty fabulous--And all I needed were some upholstery tacks and unmeasured fabric with rough edges!!!
Clerk: (flustered) I'll have your fabric ready for you in just a minute. Did you say you needed trim?
Me: Yes.
Clerk: How much?
Me: Oh, I don't know, lets just eyeball it!
I sometimes feel like some of those women were just waiting to convince me that whatever it was I was doing couldn't be done without the help of them and a $100 per hour designer. When they ask me what I am doing with what I am buying I've learned not to tell them! I'll just say that my mom asked me to pick up a few yards of such and such for her or mumble something impossible to understand.
I'll be the first to say that there are some wonderfully, brilliant, encouraging fabriteers/designers out there--let's hear it for Jennipher {yes, that's how she spells her name so funky!} at Printer's Alley--this girl encouraged me to sell my tassels at a local shop! And I cannot forget Debbie out at 1502 she walked me through a purchase of 60 yards of fabric for a COM order! These girls really helped me make some great decisions!
Lately, if I need something from a fabric store, I'll visit Fabric.com, etsy supplies or ebay first, I wonder if those fabriteers miss me? Have your fabric shopping experiences been good?
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5/07/2009
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Labels: decorating dork, window mistreatments
Mistreated Table
I was too ashamed to take a before photo of this table that is in my craft room. It had piles of extra stuff that was slowly getting out of control. So I did what any lazy perfectionist would do and I covered it up real cute like.I've got a big bunch of fabric laying around and this particular piece has been used for about 5 different things so far. I think it was about 3 yards worth. I try to never cut it in case I need a continuous length in the future.
So I got Precilla, Pricilla Percilla what ever my glue gun's name is and only tried to cover the 2 sides that would be showing to the public. I hot glued the fabric to what is called the apron of the table right under where the wood top is so you cannot see my messy, impatient work.
I did that left side and just glued the corners and maybe one or two dots just to secure it in the middle. Then, I grabbed the other end of the fabric and glued that to the far right end of the table in the corner. You end up with lots of extra fabric in the middle. That is exactly what you want. It doesn't matter if you have an extra 15 inches or 5 inches, you should be able to use this method.
Find the center of the leftover, drooping fabric and hot glue it to the center of the front apron.
Now, this is the part that I have no words to describe. You simply $d_x) #nO%'! @f~/? and then Y6*X+. You start on one side of the middle and pull it tight or tought or taught and fold it over itself to make half of a pleat. See the photo down there? Do that. Yours will be bigger or smaller depending on how much fabric you have. Or you can just forget about the pleat and be normal and just cut your fabric to fit.
If you are a crazy person and insist on not cutting and want to continue with the pleat you do the same to the other side making sure that your folds are the same width as the first pleat.
Here's what it looks like when it's all done. If you have lots of fabric you could do multiple pleats. I didn't really think ahead so my pattern doesn't really match up but hey, it doesn't have to be perfect to be beautiful. Once I get my craft room cleaned up I'll show it to you. I took these photos a few weeks ago when it was cleanish. Right now I would just die of shame. I cannot even see a speck of floor.
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8/27/2008
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Mistreatment Clubbers
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8/18/2008
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Builder Beige Blah Bath
Do you have the same bathroom that we have in our house? Beige walls. Beige floor. "Brown" "wood" {please don't turn me into that blog all about unnesesary quotation marks we all know just how crucial they are in this description} cabs, white counter top. I wanted a way to liven it up on the cheap, using what I have so I shopped the house and recycled this brocade drapery panel that I used three years ago in our old house. I have 2 shower rods. One for the plastic shower curtain and one for this pocket panel. This panel doesn't reach all the way to both edges so I just stretch it to one side in hopes of fooling the eye. Or eyes if you are not a designer and actually have two eyes.
Target even has towels to coordinate.
See, here's how I used the panel in my old house. You remember the trick, right? Hang that rod high to make the room look bigger. The top of that window is right above where knots are on that ribbon holding up the fabric. And if anyone cares, the walls are tobacco road and I painted the cabs black. This is an example of what you can do to a builder beige blah bath when you own the house and can paint and wreck it all up to your heart's content. Look, I even kept what I refer to as the Miss Piggy lights above the mirror but that fabric is so seductive that you hardly notice them.
Here's another fun trick for all those extra mirrors you have sitting around. Since we have a run of the mill frame less mirror I thought it would add a little cute factor to layer a mirror on top. I tied a super fat ribbon to the things on the back and hung it all on an old finial. This is the boys/guest bath so it's hung at a good height for them. You know for when they fix themselves up and all.
This room is tiny so here's just about all there is to see in our current boy's bathroom. Sure beats beige and the bold pattern hides all kinds of mud and dirt that they bring in. Bold Pattern: a great way to bring life to a boring beige rental!
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8/14/2008
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Labels: home tour, quickies, window mistreatments
Window Mistreatment Partay!
I've been promising this for awhile and now, it's finally time...let's all meet back here Monday and link up using that weird guy Mr. Linky and share our window mistreatment adventures! Are you new here and wondering what this atrocity could possibly be that I am referring to?
This post tells my philosophy of mistreating windows. You know how designers throw around the term window treatment? Love it, but what I do to windows really doesn't qualify as a treatment. Hence, the mistreating.
Here are my definition of terms taken from this post:
Mistreatment: (n). covering for a window that is quick, cheap and pretty. may or may not need hardware does not require sewing. a real designer's worst nightmare.
Mistreating: (v). the act of treating a window with dignity and respect without use of the following: hundreds of dollars, sewing, time, crying, divorce, child neglect...
It's been so fun to share these mistreatments with you and the response has been so great that it's time we show each other what we've been up to.
Have you mistreated something? Maybe it was a doorway or under your sink or a bed--it doesn't have to be a window.
Maybe you've got your fabric and your glue gun and your stuff is just sitting around waiting for you to take action.
You've got plenty of time to get it put together and do a quick post. We all want to see what you've been up to and we could all use some inspiration and encouragement! Remember, when you are linking up to link directly to the actual post with the mistreatment, not just your blog. And even if you did your mistreatment months ago--that's fine--link to that one!
As and added bonus you get a wonderfully highly sought after expensive free gift from moi. You get to join our club and proudly display this wild, blinking button on your blog!

I'll have the post up at 12:01 am on Monday morning for you early birds/night owls.
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The Nester
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8/13/2008
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